This is something came to my mind. We should not reply to all statements with the same tone those have, i.e. we should not act as a mirror of emotions. If behavior of someone changes our emotions momentarily, we can try something to calm down or can take a thoughtful reaction or simply a small break. We may try to reply to that with a clear mind and with clear thoughts. If we reply momentarily without clear thoughts or if we reply under the influence of uncontrolled emotions, that will worsen/improve the situation. It will make the situation complex. That may be against our wish or against the situation. We should not even share the things with others without mulling over it. A thoughtful reply might ease the situation. We may thing that sharing will reduce trouble but not always. If we want to have control over situations in life, We should develop the habit of controlling and properly using our emotions at right place and at the right time. The emotional intelligence is a key thing in one's relative gain or loss in life. An adult is one who learns from his experiences. Can we learn from future?
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